I used to be a bit conflicted about having pity on people who are so closeted and self-loathing that they'd go all guerrilla-hetero on LGBT equality. But that was a long time ago.
If someone is such a self-loathing, anti-gay, gay person that he crusades against any form of LGBT equality, he can, in my humble opinion, go fuck himself.
Case in point: NY State Senator Carl Kruger
Sen. Kruger is up on corruption charges now, but last year voted to kill marriage equality in NY, even as he lives with his gay lover, cited as a co-conspirator in his corruption charges (http://blogs.villagevoice.com/...).
No, no sympathy for the pathetic wretch who's such a frakking hypocrite that he's deny others of his own kind equality under the law.